Well, you admit yourself you want a confrontation with Liz. Maybe you should just have one and get your feelings out on the table? You do deserve answers and closure if you need it, to a reasonable degree. If you think about it and decide it can't make things worse, you might as well try and see if makes things better.
And I really doubt the new guy had much to do with your relationship ending. If he hadn't come along, and Liz did put more effort into your relationship, wouldn't that mean that she only cared enough about it if something else wasn't immediately available?
You guys were having serious problems for a very long time from what I can tell. What happened was for a reason, and someday you'll probably be glad it turned out the way it did, despite the pain and unhappiness you had to go through.
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Date: 2010-02-01 11:36 pm (UTC)And I really doubt the new guy had much to do with your relationship ending. If he hadn't come along, and Liz did put more effort into your relationship, wouldn't that mean that she only cared enough about it if something else wasn't immediately available?
You guys were having serious problems for a very long time from what I can tell. What happened was for a reason, and someday you'll probably be glad it turned out the way it did, despite the pain and unhappiness you had to go through.